The End of a Friendship and What I Learned:
- If you make all the effort you are capable of making, you will have no regrets.
- By taking the high road, you may feel like you are giving up self-worth by not defending yourself but in the end, you are actually preserving your integrity.
- You can’t say anything to make someone happy if they are not willing to find happiness themselves and make the changes to do so.
- If someone brings more negative into your life than positive, it’s not worth the positive.
- If someone is always angry about something or someone, you are eventually going to be that someone.
- When you walk away from a friendship and your load feels lighter, you made the right decision.
I wrote this poem when I was in Grade 8 (yes, many years ago!) yet it still has the essence of what a friendship should be and what we should all strive for:
Someone who has a shoulder
That you can lean on when you’re sad.
Someone who’s shared the memories
Of all the good times that you’ve had.
Someone who’ll lend a hand
When you need it most of all.
Someone who’ll give you confidence
When you’re hopes are about to fall.
Someone who will listen
When you have something to say.
Someone who will be there
Every minute of the day.
Someone who will stand by you
Until the very end.
Someone, like this
Is what I call a friend.
I strive to be that friend. Friendship is work and it’s required from both ends. Some think that marriage or babies can cause friendships to end. They don’t. A friendship will last through life changes or across the miles. I have friendships that are proof of that.
Friendships that lift you up and make you a better person are the ones to nurture and keep a close hold on. Those are treasures.
- A Friendship Lost (thecurseofthesingleparent.com)
- True Friends (thecomplainerguy.wordpress.com)
- Planes, Ferries and Automobiles (westcoastprairiegirl.com)